Are you wondering why girls keep turning you down whenever you ask them out, and you are not sure how to talk to a girl in any situation apart from when you are friends?

Girls have delicate hearts, and want to be close to people who make them happy. You need to master how to talk to girls in order to win the dating game. Girls respond the same to similar experiences, and therefore learning how to impress one girl will make you the darling of all women.

The following are tips on how to talk to a girl the first time you meet.

  • Compliment Her  - Girls want to hear positive things about themselves. She will be comfortable with you if you give her honest compliments. Let her know how you feel about her dress, her hair style, and her shoes.Do you like her perfume? Be the one to smell the scent of her perfume. Do not wait for other people to tell her that she is smart, or that she looks sexy on her boots. Tell her what her style says about her, and what you think about her. She will be more confident if you are comfortable with her outfit, and if the world does not laugh at her decor.
  • Make her smile - Learn what she likes most and use it to make her smile. Does she love cartoons? Find a funny joke about cartoons. She will be happy if you actively listen to her, if you tell her a joke and if you smile at her joke. Be careful not to hurt her with ridiculous jokes, as this may make her feel embarrassed and thus avoid you in future.
  • Be Creative - Do not bore her with clichés and boring narratives. Tell her something creative, a brand new story from your heart. Do not repeat any story, as this could just mean that you are seeing too many girls to realize when you are repeating yourself.You can memorize a lovely poem but recite it as if it is from your head.  Use your creativity to give positive responses. If you feel that she is becoming nosy, find a polite response. For instance, you can tell her that you are not comfortable discussing that issue.
  • Give Her Time - It helps to delay discussing romantic topics until you establish her stand. Avoid asking too many questions the first time you meet. This may make her feel uneasy and want to avoid you. Give her time to know who you are, and the values you stand for. Do not ask personal and leading questions. Respect her privacy and leave her to narrate her story when she is comfortable. A girl can easily confide in you if she knows enough about you.
  • Be Honest - Every girl wants to be with an honest man. Make sure that you answer her questions honestly. Do not give contradicting information. Remember that she can easily search for your profile online, and so beware what you tell her about yourself. The last thing you should do is lie about your name or occupation.This is hint that you are trying to hide something. She can interpret this information to mean that you are a criminal who is running from the police, or that you are spying on her.Always postpone your answer to a later date if you are willing to provide the answer during that time. Do not give a promise you cannot meet.